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2012 UGO! Award Winners

Congratulations to the winners of the 2012 UGO! Awards. 2012 was an inspiring year for travel experiences, and we felt like we were right there with you on your journeys. Thanks to the voters, the winners, and all the nominees for another fantastic year.

Writing Awards:

Nature: MilwVon

With Kids: RoBoNC

City: PraskiPark

Food: fizzytom

Photo Awards:

Views from above: debmercury

Color and Light: lavenderdays

People: BawBaw

Overall

Best Writer: MilwVon

Best Photographer: debmercury

New Member: PeaceLoveTravel

Travel Romance – A Survival Guide

I’ll never forget my first travel romance. My plan was to spend six weeks backpacking around Europe solo, discovering the local cultures, exploring the history and gorging myself on delicious food.

What I didn’t expect was to meet Dan on my very first night in an Amsterdam hostel.

I don’t know if it was his bright blue eyes, contagious laughter or the fact we had smoked something a little stronger than cigarettes, but after an hour of intense conversation I knew I was in love. Even the next day when the smoke had cleared and we woke up next to each other, blemishes and imperfections glowing in the morning sunlight, the feeling was still there.

“I have something really romantic planned for today,” he said with a smile. “Let’s go get kebabs and some of that 1 Euro wine we saw and go listen to the hippies playing guitar in Vondelpark.”

“Sounds like the best first date anyone has ever planned, babe.”

Things moved quickly, as they tend to when you spend every waking and non-waking hour with someone. And although there were some bumps in the road, we managed to travel together for the entire trip without killing each other, even making plans to travel again in the future.

But keeping romance alive on the road is no walk in the park, as countless broken hearts will testify.

Here are a few tips for doing it right.

Set Realistic Expectations

The trick to a travel romance is realistic expectations. Meeting a sexy stranger in an exotic land is always exciting, and can lead to heightened feelings of love and a quick relationship progression. Within a week you know each other’s deepest secrets, worst habits and embarrassing smells, but it only makes you love each other more.

Although this can be an amazing experience, don’t get your hopes up if it doesn’t last longer than the trip itself.

I’ve had travel romances that continued on after the plane ride home, as well as intense flings that fizzled out quicker than Alta Seltzer. If it works out, great. If it doesn’t, at least you enjoyed the ride.

Hostels Can Be “Romantic”

When you find a passionate travel romance, realize how lucky you are and embrace every second of it. If you’re a long-term traveler, don’t get frustrated about your low funds but instead work with what you have.

For example, you don’t need to stay in a private hotel room to get some action, as hostels provide plenty of opportunities for getting it on. Think the shower, rooftops or in the afternoon when everyone is out sightseeing.

Additionally, expensive restaurants and romantic excursions are overrated. For a romantic meal, have a picnic in the park with some cheap wine or head to a local restaurant where neither of you can read the menu.

These venues are usually cheaper and can be unforgettable — especially when you order something you can’t identify. Add to the affordable romance by getting lost in a city together, hiking to a scenic viewpoint or kayaking on a nearby lake.

Remember, you don’t need to work hard to make the relationship exciting, since everyday when traveling is a new adventure in itself.

Give Each Other Space

You’re already spending more time together in a month than most couples do in a year, so give each other some space. Splitting up for the day and doing some solo sightseeing will not only keep you from getting on each others’ nerves, but will also allow you some independence and personal growth.

Cut Each Other Some Slack

Nobody can be perfect 24/7, so cut each other some slack. In normal dating situations, both parties are able to hide their annoying habits and bad behavior for at least a few weeks, usually months; however, when you’re on the road full-time together everything comes out into the open.

So his breath isn’t minty fresh every time you kiss and he didn’t pay for your lunch, and she picks her teeth and takes an hour and a half to get ready. Accept your situation and relax.

Keep The Communication Open

That being said, if there is something really bothering you, speak up (nicely). The worst thing you can do when traveling with a romantic partner is hold your feelings in until you explode.

Let your new love interest know if you need space or if there is something making you unhappy. As long as you convey your feelings in a clear and respectful manner this should only make you stronger.

Roll With The Punches

While fun, traveling can be stressful. Uncomfortable situations, missed trains and language barriers can make you both cranky. Instead of letting bumps in the road bother you, roll with the punches and enjoy every moment of your time together. Keep in mind, most issues on the road turn into funny travel stories later.

Splurge

If possible, pool some money together for a romantic splurge. It doesn’t have to be over-the-top, but one night in a private hotel room or a steak dinner can pull you both out of your routine. While everyday is exciting on the road, it can never hurt to add some ambiance once in awhile.

Trust Your Gut

So it’s been two weeks and you’re starting to wonder if maybe you rushed into things. If you start to feel like the romance isn’t what you want anymore, get out. Although it may feel like you’re in a long-term relationship, the truth is you don’t know each other that well, and you don’t owe this other person anything. Travel is selfish. It’s about having the experiences you want in a foreign land. Do what you need to make your travel experience the one you want.

By Jessica Festa

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Jessie loves nothing more than her backpack. With a Masters degree in Communication she had a choice; find a steady job or live the dream. She was always going to choose the latter. On her blog, Jessie on a Journey, she covers lesser-known destinations as well as popular places from new and unusual perspectives. She also writes for Fodor’s, Gadling and the Huffington Post, among others. You can follow her travels and writing on: Twitter, Facebook, Google+ and Pinterest.

Stay Here – Not There: 5 Fun Alternatives to Pricey Valentines Day Hotels

Valentine’s Day is a tough time to pick the perfect hotel given the holiday’s requisite surprise and romance. So, instead of a last-minute search for overpriced hotels, why not try a vacation rental? Prices are set and there are typically last-minute deals  (that’s right…deals, not price hikes.)

To guide you on the path to Valentine’s Day vacation rental success, we enlisted an expert. Dan Weisman of FlipKey compares the best vacation rental options in FlipKey.com’s top five Valentine’s Day destinations:

1. Miami Beach, FL

For those Will-Smith-fresh couples, Miami Beach’s nightlife and acclaimed restaurants make this city the perfect destination to get tan and a little indulgent. Given its popularity, you’ll notice hotels are 2x the price in comparison to a luxury rental!

The Betsy Hotel

  • $695/night
  • courtyard pool
  • rooftop deck with garden and spa
  • two bars and restaurants

VS.

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Art Deco Luxury

  • $389/night
  • steps to the beach
  • outdoor pool and spa
  • private terrace

2. Lahaina, HI

Couples love Hawaii, so it comes as no surprise that this is at the top of the list for Valentine’s Day. Horseback riding, surfing, and sex on the beach (the drinks!) are ideal for any romantic trip.

The Mauian

  • $196/per night
  • shuffleboard courts
  • coin-operated laundry
  • stand up paddleboard rentals and lessons

VS.

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Stunning  & Sophisticated Oceanfront Condo

  • $150/night
  • waterfront property near snorkeling reef
  • beach chairs and towels provided
  • jaw-dropping sundecks

3. Palm Springs, CA

Palm Springs has a great mix of Hollywood stardust, outdoor adventure, and desert culture. An ideal destination for couples who want a little bit of everything.

Del Marcos Hotel

  • $338/night
  • heated saltwater pool
  • golf teetimes
  • complimentary use of cruiser bikes

VS.

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Your Private Boutique Hotel

  • $265/night
  • private saltwater pool
  • tanning ledge
  • two firepits

4. Gatlinburg, TN

Gatlinburg sits next to the country’s most visited national park – the Smoky Mountains. The breathtakingly vast landscape will help you woo your Valentine within seconds.

The Lodge at Buckberry Creek
$194/night

  • walking trails
  • hammocks
  • rustically elegant restaurant

VS.

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View of the Smokies

  • $160/night
  • mountaintop views of ski slopes
  • fully-equipped kitchen
  • hot tub

5. Rio de Janeiro

Rio de Janeiro is growing to be a favorite destination for travelers and this Valentine’s Day is no exception. Filled with excitement and a little mystery, the city offers luxurious at small prices, a feature any couple should take advantage of come the 14th.

Casa Mosquito

  • $279/night
  • five minutes from the beach
  • on-site chef and room service
  • terrace with lanai

VS.

3 Bedroom in Ipanema

  • $220/night
  • spacious modern apartment
  • five minutes from Ipanema and Copacabana beaches
  • nightlife, restaurants, and markets around the corner

About Dan Weisman

Dan Weisman is the blog editor at Flipkey.com. He is dedicated to the pursuit of fun, and enjoys every vacation and trip that he encounters on the journey. Find more travel ideas and tips on the FlipKey blog or on twitter.

The Genius of River Cruising: My Viking River Cruise Experience

Awhile back I took my first river cruise on Viking River Cruises and instantly fell in love with this burgeoning mode of escape from the ordinary.  As a quick aside, over on my own blog site at Travel By Terry, you will find a couple of posts (January 22, 2013 & January 24, 2013) where I talk about several entertaining aspects of that enriching experience not mentioned in this post.  If you are among those who have never had the pleasure of seeing the world through a Viking River Cruise, let me share with you why I personally find the experience so satisfying. (By the way, this is not one of those all too frequent cases when my tastes run counter to the rest of the known universe.) I must be in respectable company because river cruising is one of the fastest growing travel industry segments.

Step on and Settle into Luxury

Like many of you, I  previously visited various parts of Europe utilizing the “planes, trains and automobiles” approach (a great movie, by the way.(  You are not going to find me disparaging train travel because it is a highly romantic way to roam around Europe.  However, unless your wallet or purse is considerably more bulbous than mine and you can afford to ride the rails on the Venice Simplon – Orient Express or the Royal Scotsman, you are never going to mistake a normal train’s sleeping or dining cars for a suite at the Dorchester in London.

However, when you board your Viking river cruise vessel, you are stepping onto a floating luxury hotel with appealing accommodations, sumptuous cuisine, convivial traveling companions and stellar service.  Like all cruise experiences, it affords the opportunity to unpack one time, stow away your gear and nestle in for the duration.   This is made to order for those of us who despise living out of an open suitcase.

A great thing about river cruising is the small, intimate ships.  I was on Royal Caribbean’s Oasis of the Seas a while back and had a great experience.  The ship offered a world of amenities but it was larger than some shopping malls I have frequented.  With 6,000+ passengers, it is the polar opposite of being on a vessel with less than 200 guests. The latter greatly increases the likelihood of establishing new and lasting friendships and trust me when I say, I can use all the help I can get.  I suspect posting candid blog pictures of the few friends I do have may not be aiding the situation.

Step Into Another World

When you step off the gangplank of your river cruise vessel, you are quite literally stepping into another world, (that is, unless the houses up and down your street happen to resemble this one.) It is amazing what a skilled pastry chef can do with gingerbread!  Even the cars look realistic!

If you happen to be as much of a history buff as I am (please note, not history in the buff . . . for that see cruises / nude), there is enough knowledge disseminated by genuine local experts to have your head spinning like Linda Blair in The Exorcist.

For others, a history lecture may conjure up suppressed memories of a tyrannical college professor who wouldn’t recognize a brilliant essay if it was inserted crossways up his . . . ahem . . . robe all the way to his goofy mortar board.  Sorry, I digress.  Some memories die hard.  Anyway, If history is not your cup of tea, the great thing is you can sit on the deck with a literal cup of tea and gaze for hours at fairytale palaces, captivating castles and picturesque villages.

Step Off and Enjoy

And when I say step off, I mean that quite literally.  In many cases culture and history, art and architecture, music and museums are all a short walk from the ship.  When you disembark, typically you are in the heart of a great city.  Viking is well-known for their informative walking tours complete with headsets for easy listening.  And for those with more mundane interests, well, there are always plenty of these establishments.  I was escorted out of this particular shop for excessive drooling.

Finally, here is a little insider’s tip.  There are two brand new Viking itineraries that are going to be very popular when they launch in 2014.  However, the early bird can book the elusive worm if you act now.  Don’t let another raptor beak you to it!

1)  Châteaux, Rivers & Wine – (Bordeaux – Saint-Émilion – Bordeaux)

2)  Memories of Mandalay – (Bangkok – Mandalay – Yangon or Bangkok – Yangon – Mandalay)

Thanks for stopping by.  I hope you have caught a raging case of river fever.  It is highly contagious and the only known cure is booking your own magical river cruise experience, preferably before the sun sets today.  You don’t even want to hear about the night sweats and hallucinations.

About Terry Denton

Inveterate traveler, proficient writer, avid golfer, unremarkable person. Co-owner of Travel Leaders / Main Street Travel of Fort Worth, Texas

Touring the Axis of Evil: 5 Extreme Adventures

Travel is about getting out of my comfort zone and exploring places that make me hold on to the edge of my seat. But these days it’s getting harder and harder to find untouched destinations – places that remain relatively raw and non-commercialized.

That’s why I like visiting less conventional destinations. More often than not, the places I enjoy most are those with slightly negative connotations.These are also the most ethically challenging places to visit – the “extreme adventure” destinations that confront our beliefs and world views and help us to learn more about our planet and its people.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not silly enough to put my life at risk for bragging rights. But even Tony Wheeler, the founder of Lonely Planet who recently wrote a book on his tour of the axis of evil, poised it eloquently, “In almost every bad land I am moved by the outgoing friendliness of ordinary men and women. I have come to see that bad is a relative term, and that there are always two sides to every story.”

Forget about holiday brochures – get your atlas, find somewhere you’ve never heard about before, and go there. I promise you nothing will make you feel more alive.

North Korea

Pyongyang – photo courtesy of WildJunket

It comes as a surprise to many that anyone can visit North Korea as a tourist. Notorious as one of the “axis of evil”, North Korea (better known as Democratic People’s Republic of Korea) is often sullied by negative perceptions.

Since the end of World War II, the DPRK has closed its doors to the outside world. Only local channels are shown on TV, there is no internet access and only 2,500 foreign tourists (not including the Chinese) visit the country each year.

North Koreans are taught to think that anything foreign is a threat – yet, I was surprised to find how curious locals were of us. On the subway, we interacted with people, showing them our photos and laughing along with them.

We even had the chance to play with Korean children at a park, through charades and guessing games.

In fact, the DPRK actually appeared rather tame until we saw the stern soldiers at the DMZ (demilitarized zone.) They confiscated a camera from a member of our group.

Albania

Another member of Tony Wheeler’s “axis of evil”, Albania is intrinsically associated with the Cold War even today. More than 40 years of communist rule (under the dictator Enver Hoxha,) followed by a period of extreme mid-90s capitalism, the country is still struggling to get back on its feet.

During my visit in May 2010, Albania surprised me with the hospitality of welcoming locals (I lost my wallet and a local brought me to the police station and even lent me some money), local cuisine that easily tops anywhere else I’ve been, and clusters of beautiful towns tucked high in the mountains.

Of course there are always things to be wary of in Albania – such as petty crime on public transport and safety on the streets at night. But all in all, Albania is definitely a unique place to visit.

Myanmar

Myanmar

photo courtesy of WildJunket

Due to decades of political conflict, travel to Myanmar (formerly Burma) presents an ethical decision – are we encouraging the regime by visiting? While Myanmar remains a troubled country, things are definitely looking up. Following the election in 2010, a civilian government took over, Aung San Suu Kyi was released from house arrest, and the tourism boycott has since been lifted.

Traditional and surreal at the same time, visiting Myanmar allows you to travel back to a time when paved roads were non-existent and creaking buses throttled along packed with hundreds of passengers. It is a country that stirs my soul with its thousands of sacred stupas, poetic Buddhist towns, and mystical lakes. It remains one of my favorite countries to date.

Perhaps it’s because of years of isolation, perhaps it’s the deep-rooted Burmese culture, Myanmar remains pure and untainted – for now. Today’s Burma is still struggling with poverty and its tourism infrastructure is almost non-existent, but as long as you’re prepared for the bumpy rides and harsh conditions, you’ll be in for a rewarding journey.

Guatemala

Stories of violence, kidnapping, and drug trafficking incidents are all too common in Central America. Based on a CNN report on Guatemala, 6,500 people met violent deaths in 2009 and nearly 6,000 were slain in 2010. 41% of these deaths were associated with drug trafficking. Worst of all, more than 96% of all crimes go unpunished.

When I was in Guatemala several years back, I was stumped by my fellow travelers’ tales of mugging and rape.

Danger may be lurking in certain corners, but that doesn’t stop Guatemala from being a popular backpacking spot. It didn’t take me long to fall for the charms of this diverse, rustic nation. I traversed the country from the charming colonial city of Antigua to the impressive Tikal ruins in the north, and never got mugged once or felt like I was in any sort of danger. But then again, I steered clear from Guatemala City – the most potent part of the country where crime and violence are part of daily life.

Zimbabwe

photo courtesy of WildJunket

Like the others on the list, Zimbabwe has been making headlines for the wrong reasons. Since Robert Mugabe took ruling power in 1980, the country has spiraled into a series of racial conflicts, human rights abuse and violence. Although the country’s economy is slowly recuperating, millions of people are still living on food aid and struggling with disease outbreaks.

Behind this dark history lies a gorgeous country waiting to be explored. From the wilderness of Mana Pools to the chaos of Harare, Zimbabwe shows Africa at its best.

Granted, dodgy streets in the cities are best avoided and crowded markets remain off the tourist radar. But thankfully, I got a chance to know its people – who all warmly welcomed me into a country clearly misunderstood by the world.

I’m not saying that these countries are “easy” travel destinations, either in terms of comfort or ethics. But to me that’s what travel is all about.

by Nellie Huang

Nellie Huang

With an eye for adventure and a thirst for the unknown, Nellie is a travel writer and blogger who loves to veer way beyond the conventional trail. Her blog, WildJunket is the child of all her adventures (and misadventures) around the world. Since the success of her blog, along with her photographer/designer husband, she has also launched a digital flipbook magazine, WildJunket Magazine.

You can find her online on Twitter, Facebook, Google+ and YouTube.

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Love Wine? Forget Napa and Head to the Colorado Wine Country

Mike Richard of Vagabondish tells us why Napa is “out” and the Colorado Wine Country is “in.”

Aaaahhh, Napa Valley. Breathe it in … roll the words around your tongue… It’s legendary! Can’t-miss! Bucket list worthy! America’s Mount Everest of Vino for oenophiles! Blah, blah, blah… If you ask me, it’s also staid, pretentious and (most important for budget-wise travelers aka normal people) it’s overpriced. When celebrity chefs can bilk their clientele for $500+ dinners per couple without wine (I’m looking at you, Thomas Keller) when the classic, once venerable Wine Train becomes little more than a rolling fish bowl for mildly intoxicated, purple-toothed tourists dropping $120 per lunch aboard “Napa’s most unique restaurant”, while stumbling from one predictable, mediocre winery to the next; when an over-hyped, well-to-do vintner constructs a monstrous, Disney-esque replica of a 13th century Italian castle (complete with moat, drawbridge and torture chamber!) along the Valley’s rolling hills, it’s safe to say that Napa has finally “jumped the shark”. For travelers seeking an up-and-coming, affordable, back-to-basics wine country experience, look no further than…

Western Colorado Wine Country

Wine-Tasting-Room “Colorado wine country, eh? Wait … did you say Colorado?” If you’ve never heard of the Grand Valley or West Elks AVAs (American Viticultural Areas), you’re not alone. Most out-of-staters are blissfully unaware of these vast, rolling expanses of Western Colorado viniculture. (Hell, most Coloradans are too.) While best known for a thriving beer scene, the state is also home to a growing number of excellent vineyards and wineries – more than 80 small, family-owned estates in total. Be forewarned though: if you fancy your adult beverages “neat”, have ever considered purchasing an ascot, or routinely use the word “zeitgeist” in passing conversation, you’re probably not Colorado Wine Country material. This area is for wine lovers looking to eschew uppity, pinky-up tastings in favor of a no-frills tour with a laid-back vibe. If you can’t have fun and catch a cheap buzz on excellent local wines here, you’re doing it wrong.

Getting Around in the Colorado Wine Country

A handful of “official” trail will guide you through the area’s best wineries, but I highly recommend the Heart of Colorado Wine Country Trail. Those fortunate enough to travel this entire loop beginning and ending on I-70 in Glenwood will have seen where almost every grape in Colorado originates. Make sure to pack your drinking shoes though! This massive trail covers both of the aforementioned federally designated AVAs. Allow two days minimum, three to really enjoy yourself. The area is most easily traversed by car as most of the wineries are on or near major highway routes. However, the region also offers some of the best biking trails in North America. So, if you’re feeling particularly adventurous, hop a mountain bike and pedal the entire route. Or, if you’re feeling adventurous but a little lazy, hop a pedicab ride with Palisade Pedicab (call: 970-250-1654) and pay someone else to pedal it for you.

Where to Taste

I’ll be so bold as to say that virtually every winery and vineyard along The Trail is worth a visit (although it’s worth noting that I spent the tail end of my two days babbling semi-coherently about the dearth of In-N-Out Burger joints in Colorado. But that’s another story for another post…). Allow me to present a brief selection of my favorite Western Colorado wineries:

Sample a Cherry Pie at Carlson Vineyards The fun, knowledgeable staff here pours generous samples of more than a dozen varieties with names like Laughing Cat, Pearadactyl (Pear-Apple), and Prairie Dog Blush. While they’re most famous for their Rieslings, don’t miss their cherry wine. It’s served in a small, plastic cup with a chocolate dipped rim and described as “cherry pie without the crust”. Or their Cherry Lemonade – a blend of cherry wine and frozen lemonade. (Napa snobs, turn back now. It doesn’t get any prettier…)

Get High at Terror Creek Winery This oddly named winery is located high above the town of Paonia on Garvin Mesa. At an elevation of 6,400 feet, it is “the highest estate bottled winery and vineyard in the northern hemisphere” (just in case you were hoping to finally check that one off your bucket list). The tasting room boasts excellent views of Terror Creek’s vineyards and the West Elk mountains. Inside, winemaker and sole proprietor Joan Mathewson is happy to chat about each of her Alsatian-style wines, including a smooth chardonnay vinted without oak and a spicy gewurztraminer.

Help Yourself at Colorado Cellars Winery Colorado-Cellars-Winery The folks here have been producing wine since 1978, making it Colorado’s oldest winery and the only one legally allowed to use the state’s name. It’s also the largest and (in their words) “most award-winning”. The best part: they offer most of their 23 varieties in a self-serve, imbibe-as-much-as-you-like setup. Oh, and it’s free. And there’s often food samples, including fruits, salsa, and gourmet cheeses. Don’t miss their meads – light, soft bodied wines with rich, sweet honey flavors. (Come to think of it, you might just want to stay here and skip the rest of the trail.)

Sample Cabernet and Peaches at Colterris Wines Opened in 2010, Colterris (literally: “from the Colorado land”) is the new kid on the block. They’ve taken to doing one thing and doing it well: red wine blends aged in French oak barrels. For two dollars per, grab a sample of their 2010 Cab Franc or Cabernet Sauvignon (currently 2009 or 2008). The tasting area is a small, open-air patio where the winemakers themselves are happy to serve you and chat about their unique blends. Don’t miss: the small fruit stand next door. The peaches are out-of-this-world good!

Taste Specialty Seasonals at Grande River Vineyards Grande-River-Vineyards-Colorado-Wine-Country The ambiance of the polished wine shop here might feel more like a gift shop to some. But the selection of wines is solid and the tastings inexpensive – first three are free, and just $3.50 for the next five. The real win here is the specialty offerings which vary by season. During my summer visit, I couldn’t get enough of the Late Harvest Viognier – like a full fruit basket upfront with a mellow, not-too-sweet finish. Don’t miss: their outdoor summer concert series featuring everything from jazz to Latin, bluegrass to classical … and of course plenty of food and vino. Well there you have it. Who needs the Napa Valley now we’ve got Western Colorado to play with?

 

Mike-Richard

Mike Richard

Mike Richard is a Rhode Island native, professional web designer and travel junkie with an unhealthy addiction to backpacking, hiking and seeing the world. Since 2006, he has edited, written for, and kept the gears running behind the scenes as founding editor of his blog, Vagabondish. He absconded from corporate life in 2010 to travel full time and hasn’t had a permanent residence since. He has spoken professionally as a featured panelist at the annual TBEX (Travel Blogger’s Exchange) conference. Other noteworthy credits include “Woman’s World magazine contributor” and having once been interviewed by Tyra Banks (seriously). Find Mike on Google+. Follow @vagabondish.

Stephanie-Yoder

5 Terrible Travelers

I’ll never forget the most horrible traveler I’ve ever met. He was skulking around the Full Moon Party in Koh Phangan, a sort of haven for obnoxious party animals, but this guy rose above the rest. It wasn’t just his blindly neon outfits or his constant inebriation that made him stand out- it was the incredible rudeness and entitlement that oozed from everything he did. He was rude to the locals (he called the hostel owner’s baby a monkey!) and inconsiderate to his fellow travelers. His antics culminated in him peeing in the corner of our dorm room one night. I don’t think anyone was disappointed to see him slink off the next morning. There’s just something about South East Asia that attracts people with all the worst reasons for traveling. For the most part I don’t really care WHY people travel, just that they DO. Yet, there are some really terrible reasons to travel, and if you recognize yourself in these, you’d be better off staying home:

“The World is my Night Club”
The guy I mentioned above should NOT have been traveling. He should have stayed home and learned some manners before inflicting himself on the world. He didn’t care much where he was, he just wanted to have a good time and if he could do that on the cheap down in Thailand, then all the better. You don’t have to travel solely for culture, and it’s fine to party it up overseas, but at a bare minimum you should show some respect for the country you are visiting. The world is not your no-consequence-playground.

“I Want an Exotic Girlfriend”
You’ll find these guys hanging out at expat bars in across South East Asia with a very pretty, usually much younger, local lady (or ladyboy if they’re not careful) glued to their side. They’ve figured out that supply-side economics is on their side and over here they can attract women who wouldn’t look twice at them at home. C’mon guys, if nobody wants to date you back at home, please don’t inflict yourself on the locals somewhere else. Plus, don’t you want to be more than someone’s pocketbook with legs?

“I’m Running Away”
Probably not from the law (although I’m sure it happens), but from problems at home. One girl I met in Vietnam was in debt up to her ears back in the UK, and was simply puttering around Asia until her money ran out. “And then?” she shrugged and downed another shot of rice wine. The problem with this method is that it simply doesn’t work. You can run from your problems, you can put oceans between you and the issues, but you can’t escape them.

“I Don’t Want to Grow Up”
Okay Peter Pan. I know being part of the real world is scary, with all of its pressures and responsibilities. I don’t blame you for wanting to defer that as long as possible. The thing is, you end up growing up anyways- you can’t escape the real world forever. Eventually you’re just the old guy at the bar with no self-awareness.

“I Want to Get it Out of the Way”
Every once in awhile I stumble across one of these naïve career-oriented souls. “I’m just getting my travel out of the way now, then I’ll go back home and get a real job,” they say earnestly over Beer Laos. Well, good luck with that. The thing they haven’t bargained for is that travel is insanely addictive. It’s not something you just “get out of your system” before you go back to real life. The more you see, the more you discover there is to see. You’ve opened a Pandora’s Box of wanderlust and going back to work won’t just close it up.

Which brings me back to the actual good reasons to travel. There are far more of them then there are bad ones: curiosity, a restless heart, a love for the world and everything in it. A view of travel as a challenge to be discovered and explored and not a panacea or convenient escape from acting like a real human being. The reasons to travel are as broad as the sun – and the rewards are too.

Just don’t be a jerk.

by Stephanie Yoder

Stephanie is a girl who can’t sit still. Since graduating she has spent her time either roaming the earth or saving up for her next trip, until finally quitting the rat race for good to become a full time writer, blogger and owner of Twenty-Something Travel.

Machu Picchu: Our Favorite Member Photos

Once upon a time (or 1911, actually,) a Yale professor traveled to Peru, hiked for six days and ultimately became the first Western scholar to experience the “lost city” of Machu Picchu. The famed ruins – inexplicably designed without so much as a hammer – continue to draw thousands of worldwide visitors. The best way to get there is to hop a LAN Airlines flight, relax, and think, “I am about to visit one of the Seven Wonders of the World.”

Over the years, IgoUgo members have hiked the ruins of Machu Picchu and shared their most inspiring photos. Today, we share our favorites with you. It’s like being there…but without all that hiking.

 

photo by nora_yusuf

Baby Llama – photo by nora_yusuf

Although tours are readily available,the amount of visitors allowed to visit Machu Picchu per day is restricted to 400. It’s a fun challenge for the fittest among us, as the climb promises to tire even the most experienced climbers.

 

Final Steps of the Inca Trail- photo by chirmhosen

Peruvian Girl – photo by theartemis

Peruvian Women in Traditional Clothing – photo by iamtrc

Today, we need a team of landscapers to repair our homes and gardens. The Incas essentially use their bare hands to construct an entire city.

photo by chirmhosen

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Huayna Picchu – Towering above the Ruins

Check out LAN Airlines for more information on how you can visit Machu Picchu.

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What to Do in Nassau

Travel writer Eileen Ogintz tells us the best reasons to visit the Caribbean’s best kept secret – Nassau Paradise Island. Nassau has it all – great hotels, fantastic food, local culture and plenty of family activities.

The best dance partner I’ve ever had was a 14 year old, eight foot long, 492 pound dolphin named Icaro. I met him at Dolphin Cay at Atlantis Paradise Island in the Bahamas and he left an unforgettable impression. Resident dolphins like Icaro enable visitors to participate in one of the largest dolphin interactive programs in the world—as many as 800 people a day, Atlantis officials say. There are also interactions with sea lions if you want to brave it.
They live in a seven interconnected pools containing nearly seven million gallons of seawater. A staff of more than 80 including an on-site vet cares for them.

Swimming with Dolphins

Swimming With Dolphins

Sign up to be a trainer for a day or swim with the dolphins, as long as you are 10. Even babies have done the shallow water interaction. Check the Nassau Paradise Island for all of the options and costs.

You shouldn’t feel guilty about splurging for the experience either as some of the proceeds support the Kerzner Marine Foundation that works to preserve and protect marine ecosystems around the world.

Sea-Turtles

Sea Turtles

Nassau Island Top Things to Do

I love that in Nassau, the Bahamas’ capitol city on New Providence Island, and its neighbor Paradise Island you can do everything from kiss a dolphin to snorkel in beautiful clear water (visibility is over 200 feet in some places) deep sea fish (50 world records were set in these waters), sail, jet ski, canoe (on Lake Nancy) horseback ride on the beach, golf or take a yoga class along the ocean, gamble or learn a little history. (Check out the historic government buildings Rawson Square, Fort Fincastle, the highest point on the island, and the Queen’s Staircase—65 steps carved by slaves in a limestone cliff at the top of Elizabeth Avenue Hill to honor Queen Victoria’s 65-year reign.)

Like pirates? The Bahamas had so many of them in the 18th century there even is a Pirates of Nassau Museum.

You can even make cigars.

That’s right. You can make cigars at the small cigar factory at Graycliff, a historic mansion dating back to the 18th century that now is a small hotel, restaurant and cigar factory. Sixteen master rollers from Cuba turn out a million cigars a year. I’m in awe. They roll out a perfect cigar in four minutes!

Mine aren’t so perfect.  I learn it is all in the feel—bunching the leaves in my hand and then wrapping them in a binder leaf that I ”glue” with a touch of sap.  Fun!

Swimming with Sharks in Stuart Cove, Nassau

I’ve had lots of adventures in Nassau—even scuba diving with sharks with Stuart Cove Dive Bahamas which also offers the option of exploring reefs, wrecks and coral walls.  The company has four sites where you can dive with sharks.  They swam in front of me, behind me, so close I could see their teeth as I kneeled 37 feet under the water.

We weren’t in a shark cage, neither was the dive master.  As long as we stayed motionless and keep our arms to ourselves, they ignored us. “You aren’t in their food chain,” the dive master explained.  Thank goodness!

Stuart Cove Shark Dive

Stuart Cove Shark Dive

Marching Flamingos at Ardastra Gardens

Like birds?  Nassau/Paradise Island are home to some of the most exotic birds in the world, including marching Flamingos.

Audastra Flamingos

Audastra Marching Flamingos

I’ve had lots of adventures on outer Bahamian islands too—kayaking through the mangroves in Great Exuma, where the path is so narrow we must go single file, scuba diving off of Green Turtle Cay. In fact, I learned to scuba dive at Brendal’s Dive Center on Green Turtle Cay in Abaco, Bahamas.

Once we’d finished our certifying dives, we went to a tiny uninhabited beach where we  met wild dolphins,  and feasted on Bahamian lobster tail and fresh conch salad that our guide had gotten from the sea as we watched.  Amazing!

Keep in mind that there are 700 Bahamian islands starting just 50 miles off the coast of Florida that offer every variety of experience, including meeting the locals in Nassau and beyond.  Join the complimentary People-to-People program and you will be paired with a Bahamian ambassador who welcomes the opportunity to introduce you to their culture through a meal, a visit to a school, a tea party, even a local church service.

Ask the locals where they go at night on Nassau.  You have your pick of clubs and casinos, from the gargantuan Atlantis Paradise Island Casino to the newly renovated Crystal Palace Casino at the Wyndham Nassau Resort.

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Wyndham Nassau Resort

About Eileen Ogintz

Eileen Ogintz is a leading national travel expert, syndicated columnist of the weekly column Taking the Kids and the creator of TakingTheKids.com whose special sections including the latest 50-Plus Places to Light Up the Holidays and Fun in the Snow have become a go-to resource for families planning getaways.

She is regularly quoted and featured as a family travel expert in newspapers, magazines and websites across the country. Eileen is the author of nine travel books, including the most recent The Kid’s Guide to New York City, and The Kid’s Guide to Orlando.

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6 Genuinely Unique Spa Travel Tips – Forget the Fish Pedis

If you pay attention to all the usual spa news you’d be forgiven for thinking that fish pedis and dung beetle facials are all the rage as the “latest” body and wellness treatments.

Well, nothing could be further from the truth. If you’re looking for genuinely unique (and maybe wacky?) spa travel experiences, forget the usual fads and look out for these instead. Just remember to bring your credit card.

Born Again at Casa Magna Marriott

What could be more rejuvenating than being reborn? The Rebirth treatment, which is offered at the Ohtli Spa in the CasaMagna Marriott Puerto Vallarta luxury resort, promises to utilize the healing power of water to mimic the therapeutic conditions inside the womb.

I guess it’s perfect for those of us who need a reboot to life itself.

The treatment starts in a pool with the water perfectly warmed to aid meditative focus. The therapist (midwife?) guides you through rhythmic movements to relax your mind and body and bring you into a meditative state which allows your tension and stress to be released, presumably into the amniotic fluid.

The treatment promises to refresh and rejuvenate and leave you feeling younger and revitalized. The spa recommends multiple treatments, but at $1,820 a session, it’s going to get pricey!

Get Stone Age in a Cave Spa in the Austrian Alps

In Austria they have an entirely different take on the best setting for a spa. The cave spas (“Healing Caves”) in Bad Hofgastein, a high-end ski and spa resort in the Austrian Alps, feature sauna-like temperatures to treat aching joints – perhaps after a day skiing in the surrounding mountains.

Healing Caves Bad Hofgastein

Healing Caves Bad Hofgastein

To reach the caves, guests actually ride into the heart of the mountain on a specially-built mine train, which clearly adds to the excitement. The caves are co-ed, so bathing suits are required. Note: claustrophobic people need not make an appointment here.

Reiki Healing Energy at Harbor Beach Marriott

Okay I call this one “unique” since the whole point is to not be touched by the therapist. Usually some contact is good for a spa treatment, but sometimes less is better.

Harbor Beach Marriott

Harbor Beach Marriott

Hailing from the mountains of Tibet to the private beaches of Fort Lauderdale, the spa at Harbor Beach Marriott offers Reiki treatments based on ancient healing techniques that use very subtle, light body contact in an attempt to channel life force energy and create a positive change in your mental and physical well-being.

Harbor Beach Marriott

Harbor Beach Marriott

Sometimes the touch is so light that you are not certain if the treatment is still in session, but trust me – all that energy afterwards didn’t come from a 5 Hour Energy shot.

Aquabella Circuit Treatment at Westin Playa Bonita

Back to the water we go, but this time for the amazing Clarins treatment called Aquabella, a hydrothermal wellness circuit offered at the luxurious Westin Playa Bonita in Panama.

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Aquabella Treatment Room at Westin Playa Bonita

By merging holistic therapy with advanced technology, the treatment promises to stimulate your circulation via a sequence of treatment chambers, each one delivering either a hot or cold hydrotherapy treatment.

Aquabella Spa - Westin Playa Bonita

Aquabella Spa – Westin Playa Bonita

They can be enjoyed in any order you please, but each has its own place in your personalized therapy so be sure to request advice on your ideal sequence. Up first is the “rain dance experience shower” for cleansing before moving on to the vitality pools. A good sweat in the herbal sauna will boost your blood circulation before the skin gets hydrated in the “amethyst crystal steam room.”

A first for me was the “pediluvio stream,” where round river stones massage your tootsies. The last stop is a lounge in the relaxation area.

Temazcal Sweat Lodge at Viceroy Rivera Maya

The end of the Maya calendar (and the world?) is just around the corner, so what better way to spend it than experiencing a purification ritual in a traditional Temazcal Sweat Lodge at the Viceroy Riviera Maya.

Above we were reborn, but now it is time to return to Mother Nature’s womb. This treatment is revered as a sacred act and must be performed by a Shaman. The ritual is said to allow us the opportunity to free ourselves from unnecessary emotional baggage and give us the ability to live in only the present.

These are some genuinely unique spa treatments for you to try, but if you are also looking for some unusual companionship maybe these monkeys would be willing to join you!

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Ava Roxanne Stritt
Ava is a travel writer and editor of the blog Spa Travel Gal. She believes that travel, spa and skincare experiences are not a luxury, but essential to a healthy body and mind. If her family needs to find her they just call the local luxury spa.
A renowned expert in spa and luxury travel, Ava is featured in USA Today, the Los Angeles Times, Spa Week, Fox News, and the Atlanta Journal Constitution, among many other publications.

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